Seetpur youth denies being in relationship with Chinese woman
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MUZAFFARGARH: The Pakistani youth who was accused by a Chinese woman of ditching her after remaining in a relationship with her in China where he was studying medicine, has denied she had been his girlfriend.
Tein Domi alias Dolly, 23, traveled all the way from China to south Punjab town of Seetpur, the native place of Ameen Amjad, to meet her “runaway boyfriend”.She claims she had been supporting him financially while he was studying in her country.
She has been taken into protective custody by police and was being kept at Muzaffargarh Circuit House.
Talking to the media on phone late on Monday, Ameen said he was still in China continuing with his studies there and had only deleted his facebook account that alarmed Dolly who thought he had fled the country.
He claimed he just had a selfie with Dolly and was not in a relationship with her.
He also accused Dolly of stalking him, repeatedly visiting him at the university hostel and disturbing his studies. He denied being financially supported by Dolly who claimed she sold her house to pay Ameen’s college fee.
Ameen claimed he sold his own land in Pakistan to fund his studies abroad.
Meanwhile, Dolly has reportedly grown jittery in the district police custody.
Sources say she tried to snatch cameras from the photojournalists who wanted her picture. They say she was insisting on staying in Pakistan and meeting with her “boyfriend”.
Published in Dawn, November 4th, 2015
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Nov 04, 2015 08:52am
Administration must resolve this and see the Chinese lady safely back home. This man Amjad appears to be lying. Take him to task. Ruining reputation of the nation.
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Nov 04, 2015 08:57am
Rip for Humanity !
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Nov 04, 2015 09:07am
We must base our judgements on evidences rather than statements.
At the same time we must treat the girl from china as our guest and ensure she stays safe.
involve chinese embassy for better resoluion asthey better understand the case from her side.
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Nov 04, 2015 09:08am
I believe the Pakistani youth is telling the truth, Chinese woman should be reprimanded and handed over to Chinese embassy.
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Nov 04, 2015 09:10am
its difficult to live without the one who once brought immense meanings to one's life. Dolly is not crazy she is a passionate lover. Boys go abroad befriend girls for sake of good times and than simply disappear one day leaving the girl in distress. Dolly cannot be wrong but truth alone cannot melt playboys.
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Nov 04, 2015 09:10am
Yes this brings bad name to the nation... The person should get married to her.. Pakistan should do anything to maintain good relations with China.
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Nov 04, 2015 09:16am
@Optimistic
Our Pakistani boy is not innocent as he pleads. She can not come from China if he has no relationship with her. Its exploitation ... He can never be educated.
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Nov 04, 2015 09:21am
Why selfie???
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Nov 04, 2015 09:22am
Youth is not trustworthy ,this Chinese lady cannot be happy with him , hence he should not be forced into a relationship with her due to pressure, Pakistan govt should reimburse the losses suffered by the lady and apologize to her and to Chinese people on behalf of people of Pakistan and the youth should be sent to jail .
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Nov 04, 2015 09:25am
It seems Ameen Amjad betray her,and the girl story is 100pc right .Police must probe the matter and book Ameen under relevant section of laws.And ensure that the girl remain in Pakistan as guest,and provide her every help she need.
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Nov 04, 2015 09:32am
This student is not telling the truth. No girl will come such a distance to meet his boy friend because of one selfi photo. Police should use third degree to extract truth. This case brings disgrace to all the Pakistanis studying in China.
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Nov 04, 2015 09:34am
If the fee was paid there has got to be some proof like receipts or voucher
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Nov 04, 2015 09:42am
This guy is typical of most Pakistani guys nowadays who exploit women and then move on.
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Nov 04, 2015 09:45am
@Human 100% agree. We should maintain good relationship with China at all times.
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Nov 04, 2015 09:45am
Both of them can not be right at the same time.
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Nov 04, 2015 09:48am
truth is obvious on girl's face. She is not lying and Mr Amin has simply lied and used her. Why else would she travel all the way down to his home town ? AND Mr Amin is telling us that during a 30 second selfie she already knows where is his hometown in a totally foreign country ? Mr Amin remember the rule of Karma. what goes around comes around.
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Nov 04, 2015 09:57am
@sana-1 why should he be sent to jail ?which law on the earth obliges some one to love one some one forever?even husband wife can divorce if they are not in love anymore. OK ,they might have been in relationship, but do you how many breakups happen around the world and in china? generally there are two or three breakups for everyone. how does he become criminal if he broke up with her?her financial claims should be sought if they are true .I firmly beleive that is plain lie ,she would never borrow him so much money. however,it is quite possible she borrow to him few thousand, but it's not possible she sell her house and pay his fees .
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Nov 04, 2015 10:00am
@Amjad Khan does it make sense ?how can you ask some one to love someone forever?b
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Nov 04, 2015 10:02am
No man we don't believe you. No one flies to other country without a solid reason despite knowing the consequences in a strange country and people.
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Nov 04, 2015 10:04am
If you can't sustain relations,why are you keeping them for selfish seasons.
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Nov 04, 2015 10:10am
Pakistani youth is lying as facebook is banned in China, rest we can understand
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Nov 04, 2015 10:11am
@Amjad Khan Dont worry he'll be in problem in China soon. a single complaint by that girl can take him to jail
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Nov 04, 2015 10:25am
AMEEN is a cheat through and through. No women will come to a far away alien country and mess her around if no discreet relations existed.My countrymen will go any length to settle into a foreign country so poor Dolly was a mear pawn at the hands of Ameen. Man stand up , come out of denial and accept the outcome of what you have done to the lady from our friendly country.
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Nov 04, 2015 10:32am
@wanghai
fyi in china if you relations with a person & then ditch the person then have to pay compensation
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Nov 04, 2015 10:52am
One cannot travel from China to Pakistan on baseless allegations ....... She has some weight in his allegations .......
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Nov 04, 2015 10:52am
It seems that Ameen is lying.
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Nov 04, 2015 11:13am
Is this man really saying that him deleting his Facebook account led her to believe he fled the country? Had he not been avoiding her otherwise? Unfortunate, but too common.
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Nov 04, 2015 11:17am
@wanghai He was not man enough to tell her he wanted to end things. He betrayed her and ran away. That's the difference.
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Nov 04, 2015 11:27am
As i said yesterday this is still a developing story. So lets just wait for few days!
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Nov 04, 2015 11:33am
This girl will not come all the way from China just because of a selfi nostalgia. However she should realise he was only a cheat and not the person who deserved her love. This matter needs sorted with appropriate compensation made to her. With increasing Pak-China visiting, more such breakups are likely to happen. Those wishing to study in China should be appropriately counselled before their departure for that country.
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Nov 04, 2015 11:54am
The boy most probably is lying. God only knows. Media should refrain from making it hot news. But it has already become hot news unfortunately.
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Nov 04, 2015 11:57am
Let us contribute some money individually and collect twice the money she paid to fund the studies of the boy and give the money to her. Let us collectively apologize for cowardice of our fellow Pakistani. We cannot do anything about the heartache though (except for wishing our sincere best to Dolly).
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Nov 04, 2015 12:05pm
The man should be severely punished. No girl in the world leaves her , home , parents and land merely on the basis of a selfie. He must have cheated her. It is the matter of honor of country.
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Nov 04, 2015 12:33pm
She should learn from this and grow up
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Nov 04, 2015 12:46pm
@Amjad Khan
Are you insane??? Third degree torture, you're living in stone age man... He is Pakistani Citizen and there is no law that you have to marry your girlfriend at ANY COST....
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Nov 04, 2015 01:04pm
@Adil Bu in a civilized society, ethics is placed above everything, even law.
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Nov 04, 2015 04:26pm
I believe this Chinese woman 100 %.
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Nov 04, 2015 05:07pm
Imagine if a Pakistani guy had travelled to another country to meet his foreign 'girlfriend' and acting all crazy .. commentators sympathising with the Chinese lady here would've been condemning the Pakistani gent.
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Nov 04, 2015 06:28pm
It looks that Amjad had been extracting money from this Chines girl by showing love affairs and at the end has betrayed her. The girl should not marry this opportunist but I think she has no control over her love for this man. DIL THO PAGAL HOTHA HY.
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Nov 04, 2015 08:49pm
Facebook doesn't work in China, dude!
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Nov 05, 2015 07:25am
Amjad seem to be flirt took maximum benefits from her and abandon her & even deleted her from Face Book cunning guy spoiling name of Pakistan with our true friend China if he is there should be deported on the first available flight if in Pakistan they should be tied in marriage.
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