July 05, 2008

As fast as this world is developing and inventing new things with all these changes our behaviour is also changing and that’s why we all are losing our patience and tolerance which is not so good for our life and to live in this world.

The most important thing to live in this world that I have considered is patience and balance in our life. Our life in this world is a journey; as someone said we are here on probation. Each of us has to undergo various trials and tribulations, various successes and failures. “That is life.” It is important to bear in mind that we should remember God during good times and also in difficulty.

Our ability to lead a harmonious life depends on our ability and skill in solving the changes in our life. If we are currently living in happiness with no worries in life then we are virtually guaranteed that some time in the future, sooner than we think, we will be faced with problems both minor and major.

Any difficulty, hardship, major problem or calamity becomes bearable and tolerable, using patience and placing one’s trust and hope in God.

We have to be prepared for such problems and we have to deal with these problems when they do arise.

Good work is done with patience and with several verifications until it comes to the right point.

A flower cannot grow earlier than it is supposed to, an animal cannot protect it self and have the velocity and power from the first day of his life. This is the natural process of life. If we desire balance and happiness we have to respect it, otherwise we only cause distortion and damage to others with our impatience.

Patience and tolerance towards human mistakes are indispensable too, if we wish to be sensitive and sensible. Nobody is perfect, nobody knows everything if we keep this statement in our minds all the time then we will be wise. Instead of arguing and complaining about other people’s behaviour and mistakes, we should try to understand their real problems and find ways to help them.

Patience can only be relief for the problems that cannot be solved or that need time and it is natural necessity that also has a very important philosophical meaning.Therefore, we must have a certain amount of patience about expecting any visible changes in our behaviour. Without this patience either we lose our sense, self worth or lose faith in the efficacy of our chosen path.