IN contemporary society, parents are expected to demonstrate their success through their children. This is a sort of sociological concept that has escalated to unprecedented levels. The belief that a glamorous life serves as a marker of achievement and empowerment for children is widespread.

Many parents assume that possession of lavish gifts will not only reward their children for academic accomplishments, but also inspire them to strive for further success. However, this perspective often leads to unforeseen consequences that may jeopardise their children’s future.

Instead of nurturing independence and resilience, this mindset can lead children towards a path of recklessness, where the allure of new possessions overshadows the fundamental importance of education, personal growth, as well as character development.

The responsibility to guide children towards a balanced and meaningful life ultimately rests with parents. It is crucial to recognise that equipping children with excessive privileges does not equate to empowerment.

In addition, parents should focus on instilling in children values that promote critical thinking so that they may flourish through education, discipline and a comprehensive understanding of actual, real-world challenges.

The pressure on parents to showcase their success in the shape of wealth and possessions through their children is a complex issue that requires careful consideration and a shift in mindset.

By prioritising their children’s wellbeing over societal pressures, parents can effectively contribute to the development of a generation that values meaningful achievements and the importance of making wise choices all through their lives.

Shafi Ahmed Khowaja
Hyderabad

Published in Dawn, January 10th, 2025