I was extremely scared of the Sikhs in my childhood. Their turbans, flowing beards (in those days except for the maulvis very few Muslims sported beards) and kirpans (small swords with religious symbolism), made them scary. What fuelled my fears were one-sided stories of Partition-era killings in the Punjab.
In the missionary school that I studied in Bombay (it wasn’t Mumbai then) in 1949-1950, there was no Sikh student to allay my fears. But later, thanks to my avid reading of progressive literature and my interaction with members of the community, I found them to be a warm and hospitable people.
Last year, while going to the Golden Temple, I was struck by a series of impressive buildings on what is the Khalsa College Campus on the Grand Trunk Road that connects Peshawar with Kolkata. I wanted to explore them further.
The impressive Khalsa College in Amritsar is a hop across the Indo-Pak border but sometimes seems a world away
I wrote to Khushwant Singh, whose recent biography of Captain Amarinder Singh — currently the Chief Minister of Indian Punjab — is creating waves, that I wanted to see, or rather experience, the 125-year old autonomous educational institution.
He wrote to the multifaceted Sardar Gunbir Singh, the finance secretary of the Khalsa College Charitable Society that runs as many as 20 educational institutions in Punjab and the response was heartwarming. I was invited to stay at the college guest house.
There was, however, a misunderstanding about my arrival in Amritsar, which turned out to be an advantage. At the guest house, the lady who runs the place and cooks delicious meals had gone to Chandigarh thinking that I would make an appearance a day later.
Since there was no food available at the guest house, I left my bag in the room and walked out hoping to have a meal in the college canteen. As I stepped out, I found two girls in their late teens, chatting incessantly. They were students of B.Com who were heading towards their hostel.
“Have you ever seen a Pakistani?” I interrupted them hoping they could help me locate the canteen.
“No,” both of them blurted out.
“That’s astonishing. You are about 20 miles from Wagah and you haven’t seen a Pakistani!” I was actually surprised. “Have a good look at me, I am from Pakistani. If you think we have horns, let me tell you I unscrewed them and left them at the border.”
They giggled. Both of them, Mamta Bawa and Parminder Kaur, whose father has agricultural land on an enclave at the Khem Kharan border, are Sikhs. I tell them that I’ll treat them to lunch if they’ll lead me to the college canteen.