All cleaned up, his tiny head visible from under the colourful beret, the rest of the body wrapped tightly in a cloth, the new born was gently passed on to an elderly man standing outside in the passage of the labour room at KMC's Gizri Maternity Hospital. The mood is more solemn than of jubilation. The man leaned over and began reciting the Azaan loudly, first in one ear and then the other. The little one, his eyes wide open, listened to it intently. Five minutes later, another baby was brought out and handed over to the man and the ceremony was repeated.
Oblivious to that, just a few feet away, Shakila Ramzan, a reed of a woman shouted out 'Rabia ke saath' and minutes later a nervous-looking young man appeared, an older woman trailing behind him. The next half hour was spent by Ramzan trying to convince Muaqaddas Ali, 24, soon to become a father second time around, the advantages of family planning, and that too, soon after delivery.
With his wife Rabia soon to deliver, Ramzan had a small window of opportunity to get Ali's consent to allow the hospital administration to insert a T-shaped Intrauterine Contraceptive Device (IUCD) into his wife's uterus while she was still on the delivery table.
The couple didn't want any more children, but Ali seemed reluctant to have an IUCD inserted in her wife. They had refused during antenatal clinics which his 18-year old wife had been visiting regularly. "After our first child, we were told by the doctors at the previous hospital that this FP method was not suitable and may cause a lot of problems," Ali explained of his reluctance. He said they would decide after 40 days.
“It's really difficult to convince husbands to give consent and sometimes we have to do it multiple times. It can be quite tiresome” - Maria Irfan
Gentle cajoling did the trick and Ali signed the consent form. "I have to talk so much every day, it's quite draining," said Ramzan, as she wiped the sweat off her face and straightened the dupatta over her head. She also said that if the long acting IUCD was not inserted immediately after delivery, women would have to wait six weeks. "During that period, she may get pregnant!"
In another part of town, in another hospital, the situation is similar. Maria Irfan, staff incharge at the government-run Sindh Empoyees Social Security Institution hospital in Landhi, is a trained counselor for LARC (long acting reversible contraceptive). "It's really difficult to convince husbands to give consent and sometimes we have to do it multiple times. It can be quite tiresome," she echoes Ramzan's woes.
Both feel, lack of education is a big curse. "If only these women were even slightly educated, our tasks would be made so much easier," said Ramzan.
Myths come in the way of contraception
Close by, waiting patiently to speak to Ramzan, was Rubina Sachal a mother of seven and having gone through 11 abortions. "Please remove the coil as I bleed heavily and suffer from severe pain in my back; and I'm gaining a lot of weight as well," requests an adamant Sachal. The women in the neighbourhood had scared her that the IUCD may have travelled up into her intestines.
Ramzan sat her down, addressed her complaints and convinced her to come back after a month while writing down a prescription for an iron supplement. "Take these tablets regularly and if you still suffer from these symptoms we will remove it," she told her gently with a reassuring smile, allaying the woman's fears.
Ramzan revealed that the woman had visited her twice before and she had been able to convince her not to get the contraception device removed. "If she does, she will get pregnant as her husband is idle and she won't take any precaution," she said knowingly.
"These women come with the weirdest misconceptions; and these would be hilarious if it were not so tragic. Even a little spotting will be exaggerated and considered bleeding," she said. Clearly the factors that she has had 11 abortions, seven births and that she is the only bread earner (the husband does not work) in the house are disregarded for her having health issues.
The PDHS (Pakistan Demographic and Health Survey) 2012–2013 states that twice as many women (28.3pc) from poorer households complain of side effects from Family Planning methods than wealthier women (14pc). The findings reflect poor quality of services (weak counseling about side effects and choice of method) at facilities serving the poor.
Ramzan said if something goes wrong with even one woman the method receives a bad reputation and its consequences spread like wildfire, not just in that neighbourhood but adjacent ones as well. By the same token the satisfaction and acceptance does not seem to spread as fast.