"I am tired,” whines the bride-to-be who has been reclining at an awkward angle on a lounge chair for the past two hours while a mehndi artist applies henna to her palms and feet.
Twenty-one-year-old Khadija smiles as she creates patterns with the lightly scented henna oozing from the lean, silver cone in her hand. Even though the bride-to-be is weary and stiff and there is the raucous din of song and thumping drums around her, Khadija is patient and persistent with a hawk’s eye for detail.
“There’s just something very joyful about being part of the celebrations in weddings and Eids!” she says. “It’s nice to know that people think of you when they wish to rejoice.”
Drawing intricate henna patterns on a bride’s hands is an art not always an easy art to master
Khadija’s interest in henna application started when she joined a mehndi class during her summer break at the age of 12. She recalls how the instructor taught her to first draw neat patterns on paper with a pen. Next, they were asked to make a paste from flour and fill it in cones like a piping bag and learn how to squeeze out the paste smoothly and not in clumps. It was only then that they progressed to tracing designs copied from books with henna onto a mirror surface. “This was good exercise to steady my hand,” she says.
Today, Khadija is one of the many girls who earn up to 30,000 rupees per month when the wedding season is at its peak. “The winter, as well as the months between the two Eids, is the time when weddings are in full swing.”
When there is a bride to cater to, Khadija says that she charges 3,000 rupees for arms (up to the elbow) as well as feet. “Most brides prefer intricate patterns which take hours to apply. For me it takes five hours but it doesn’t tire me as it’s my passion!” she shares. “Others also opt for Indian checkered or large Arabic patterns.”
She keeps up with the trends that high-end parlours create. “You can’t compete with the big wigs,” she says, “Their mehndi artists are quite sophisticated and they charge three times of what I charge.”
Besides going solo, Khadija is also part of a group of 12 women — from various ages and backgrounds — who go to people’s homes to apply mehdni for weddings.
“If we have over 50 clients at a mehndi function, then we need all hands on board,” Khadija explains. “Sometimes the demand is so high that we have to distribute ourselves in two or three groups to meet the needs of different clients.” She shares that her group charges 70 rupees per palm for application.
Kiran, a 39-year-old mother of one, began her stint with mehndi started in 2012 with an upscale parlour in Defence. With a good five-years’ experience under her belt, she now earns up to 35,000 rupees a month while the salon she works at charges up to 10,000 rupees for a bride’s mehndi and 500 rupees for regular application. “We are encouraged to keep up with the latest henna trends and we are eager to improvise.”