Illustration by Ahmed Amin
Bond better
You are not just a product of your own personality and efforts, but also those of your friends. If you have hardworking, studious and honest friends, you will soon emulate them and follow the path they are on.
And if your friends are the non-serious, fun-loving or the rowdy kind who would rather do anything but study, you will surely pick up their bad habits and become distracted from studies.
I am sure your parents also tell you to keep good company, and the wise ones in all ages have said the same. There is truth in the proverb “If you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas,” so don’t be with people whose bad influence can rub off on you. Deep in our hearts, we all know what is right and what is wrong, and when your friends indulge in something that is not right, you know you should not be doing it too.
Step away from friends and company which you think didn’t work well for you last year. This also involves disengaging yourself from friends and activities online, in the virtual world, which are wasting your time and distracting you from studies. If someone or something drags you down and distracts you, it is not for you.
Accept failures
We all want only good things in life, but life can have other plans. Accept the setbacks you may have, such as poor marks in a class test, a silly tiff with a friend, a scolding from a teacher, or falling sick and missing school for days.
Don’t let these things shake your confidence or your enthusiasm at school. Learn from failure and accept mistakes — they are as important in your growth and progress, as a person and student, as your success and achievements are.
There is a lesson to be learnt from everything. And in doing this you will also have to say sorry and make up for your mistakes in different ways, don’t feel embarrassed in doing so, no matter how hard it may seem. You will feel better after saying sorry to the teacher if you have misbehaved in the class or forgotten to do your homework, and it will show your sincerity to the teacher too.
Look up the library
Yes, there is a place known as library in school and most of you have been ignoring it or just going there to sit and chat with friends. If you look around, there are books in it. Maybe you didn’t notice it last year, but do so now. You will find not only books on countless topics and stories of all genres, but also many magazines that are less time-consuming, though equally interesting and informative, to read.
Do become a reader, especially if you were not one last year. Reading books is the best thing your can do with your time, this year and in all the years to come. Read anything that you like, it doesn’t have to be something related to your studies. In fact, leisure reading is an excellent way to improve your mind, knowledge, perception and personality.
These are just few of the things that will keep you on track in school, but there is much more you can do and you know it better than anyone else.
Don’t ignore a problem
If you get stuck at something or encounter a problem, don’t run away or turn the other way because it will not go away until you face it and solve it.
Turn to your teachers and parents whenever you find yourself having any issue. Don’t be afraid of scoldings or be thought of as a fool or laughed at for asking a silly question. Solving a problem or getting out of trouble should be your prime objective and this is often possible with the help of others who are in a position to help and who care about you.
So make smart moves and choices, and have a fabulous school year.
Published in Dawn, Young World, September 15th, 2018