India’s stolen brides living in silent fear
MEWAT: The wrinkles on Sumari’s face betray her troubled past, making her look far older than the nearly 40 years she believes she is.
Widowed young, she was brought from her native village to northern India and sold to a man who abused her, and imprisoned her and her daughter in his house.
Sumari is one of the luckier women, having eventually found a good husband after being sold repeatedly in a thriving human trade in northern India that is blamed on local customs and a shortage of women.
More than 10,000 women like her are believed to have been bought or lured with the promise of a job from poorer Indian states in recent years to be married to men who cannot find wives.
“There aren’t enough girls here. Locals won’t give their girls to widowers, ageing and handicapped men,” said Fatima, Sumari’s neighbour in Mewat, a district of Haryana state where there are 820 girls for every 1,000 boys under the age of six.This compares to a national average of 927 to 1,000, and the worldwide average of 1,050 girls for every 1,000 boys.
Experts say abortion of female foetuses because of the traditional Hindu preference for sons in this male-dominated society has led to a severe shortage of women in Haryana, and upset the sex balance nationwide.
Bride trafficking has been well-documented here and while the impact on the region’s sex ratio is a major concern, the problem is complicated by other factors such as acute poverty and early marriage.
“Many women die during childbirth here, leaving a large number of widowers who can’t find local girls. They have to buy them,” said Manmohan Sharma of the non-profit Voluntary Health Association of Punjab, which campaigns against female foeticide.Trafficking in India takes place largely for commercial sexual exploitation, as well as for labour, organ transplant and forced marriage, says the UN office on Drugs and Crime.
Most men pay Rs 5,000- Rs 20,000 for a bride, said Ravi Kant, executive director of anti-trafficking group Shakti Vahini.
Many women are treated as domestic slaves, working for both the master and often for his wife, if he is still married. Most are reluctant to talk about the humiliation they endure.—AFP